Guide to the G-Spot
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Guide to the G-Spot | |||||
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We talk to women and men all the time about the g-spot. It is such an incredible and deep orgasm that many consider it the holy grail of sex. That being said, it isn’t a magic button nor is your orgasm going to be the same as your best friend’s. The g-spot isn’t that difficult to find, it just takes a bit of effort and practice. We’ve put together a few tips for you to help find and enjoy the g-spot. | |
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First, we’d better explain what the g-spot is. 1. The g-spot is a highly erogenous zone located by the urethral sponge (and some debate if it is part of the sponge). It is not a spot like a raison that sticks out on the vagina wall; instead it is an area that can be felt through the vaginal wall. 2. The g-spot is generally located on the front wall of the vagina canal somewhere between the base of the canal and two inches. It is often found slightly off to her right (or to her partners left). 3. Of course, no two g-spots feel the same. Some are described as feeling having a texture such as a prune or date while others feel like a group of small bumps or ridges. For the most part, a women must be aroused before the g-spot is distinguishable from the vaginal wall. 4. The g-spot is considered by many experts to be an organ similar in nature to the male prostate. Their excretion (ejaculation) is very similar in composition to that of the prostate. | |
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How to Find the G-spot and What to do: 1. Foreplay first. As you become aroused, the vaginal canal and g-spot become more engorged and easier to find. 2. Using lube can make things more slippery and reduce some of the uncomfortable drag (and after-burn) associated with stimulating the g-spot. 3. For some women, it is difficult to reach their g-spot. You can try lying on your back with your knees drawn in or try squatting down and feeling along the front of your vagina canal. You should find it along the first two inches of the vaginal canal. In many women, it is slightly to your right. | |
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4. The g-spot will feel slightly ridged. It may also be raised from the rest of the canal and feel firm. The most engorged you are, the firmer it will be. 5. Many women have more success finding the g-spot with the help of a friend. Your friend should find your g-spot by running his/her fingers along the front of the vaginal canal. They may find it slightly to their left. 6. Some struggle to find their g-spot but have greater successes with a toy. There are many toys on the market made specifically for the g-spot, but generally, firm toys that curve slightly upwards will help you find it. 7. To stimulate the g-spot, you want to use the come-hither motion with your fingers. The pressure must be relatively firm. 8. Some people report that their fingers become tired before orgasm. In this case, a toy with a slight vibration or a pulse setting can work wonders. 9. As you become more aroused, you may feel like you have to pee. This is totally normal. Keep going, you won’t pee. (If this is very uncomfortable, try to pee before stimulating the g-spot.) 10. Keep going….a fabulous orgasm is just a few strokes away. 11. You may ejaculate. Yes, female ejaculation does occur. It varies in amount from a few drops to a great gush. (One woman, who ejaculates a fair amount, was accused by her lover of peeing the bed. Female ejaculation is not urine it is similar in composition to the material created by the male prostate.) | |
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Male/Female Sexual Positions for the G-Spot 1. Woman on Top: If you are on top, you can lean backwards or forwards to change the pressure placed on the g-spot. 2. Doggie Style: Sorry girls, one of the ideal positions for this is butt up, face down. What you are trying to do is create a way for his penis to hit the front of your vaginal canal. Try propping your hips up with a pillow / wedge etc. 3. Legs Wrapped Around Your Head: This definitely works…if you are 20 and very flexible. For the rest of us, you can lay on our backs tilt you hips up and use pillows under your butt. Again, we are simply trying to have his penis hit the front of the canal. (Now, that being said, there are positionary items on the market to help you move your legs over your head…and still remain comfortable.) Enjoy the experience. Whatever comes of it should be very pleasant. Don’t get so focused on a g-spot orgasm that you forget to have fun. | |
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